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Vulnerable

Hey Bloggers We put ourselves into situations where we may find yourself vulnerable to show our feelings to let our walls down it freaks me out. As a young woman who is the definition of a late bloomer who looks 16 years old not 24 years old it may not seem much but being vulnerable means breaking down my tight protection systems it's dangerous sometimes also in this day and age online dating it's now normal to speak to a total stranger before meeting in real life. It's a bit like a few blogs before I'm growing up in an era where my whole life can be put on the internet if I chose or don't chose it to be. From my family and friends taking pictures of me and posting it on the social media to me writing my blog here it's my choice. What I put on here is what I feel is appropriate but what about the people I send photos to do I trust them enough to keep them between us? From photos I have taken there are plenty I don't send or put on social media. Sometimes ...

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL SPEW DAY aka Valentine's day

Hey bloggers It's February 14th meaning it's Valentines day for some but to me it will always be called International spew day the reason is there is too much pda I can't deal with it, it actually makes me feel sick. I'm not anti valentines day I'm just not into cheesy holidays this being the biggest holiday there is, we celebrate one day showing our partners or families or friends or boyfriends or girlfriends of love yet why is that? Should we not love them unconditionally everyday? It also neglects our ourselves we are too busy buying gifts for everyone else yet you are the person who will be there when things go to shit or when you get an award you are the person here for long term for life, so we forget ourselves we over think about the gift we are getting the other person but neglect ourselves. This doesn't mean being arrogant it's about being humble. If you are celebrating today with your partners please remember to celebrate you as well, pamper your...