Dating apps



Hey readers 

Have you noticed that in today's world nobody is able to communicate anymore? Our world has become so reduced to a screen and our fingers that now we have to date via phone because oh my god if someone asks me out without a phone conversation beforehand I think what is wrong with you! WHAT HAPPENED? not long ago people used to speak to each other (oh my god did she just say that people used to open their mouths and talk to each other?.... I think she just did)

So I know that I am an introvert there is no hiding it, but what happened to talking to people and getting to know people without the use of our phones. Now it has gotten so bad that people have now invented apps for dating (which kind of gives me the creeps) 

so this is my thing about DATING APPS, yes I will come clean I do use one no I am not sharing the name of it. So this is why dating apps, in general, give me the creeps even though I do use one occasionally. They give me the creeps because here you are as a person just say you say yes to this person and they say yes, my thing is this person to most of us is a total and complete stranger, you have never met this person yet you have given them all the details without even knowing it an example YOUR NAME,Your AGE, the location you are in or are close by to. Now, this is my only judgement question for all of us Are we MAD? How do we know that the person we matched with is not a stalker or somebody else more sinister? Are we actually talking to the person we think we are or are we talking to somebody pretending to be the person we are talking to? (that creeps me out) 

Right so let's be real here would it not be nice if we put down our phones and stepped away from our laptops AND communicated.( sorry that is another judgement statement) 
I know some people on these apps are lovely and others well you win some and you lose some but that is just life. However, the next time you are on these apps just think about what you could potentially be getting yourself into, and also always tell your best friends or a trusted person the time you are meeting someone, the place you are meeting someone and have a backup plan if things go south you have an escape route that goes for everyone male and females. 
  







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